How I Got Here: Mary Fidler

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mary-fidlerI still remember my first experience with FEW. As a longterm resident of Japan, I’d had to say goodbye to many good friends over the years as they moved on to other places or returned home. I had also just quit my 9 to 5 job to pursue a creative career in jewelry design. The combination of big changes had left me without community, but not for long.

In 2006, I attended the FEW Career Strategies Seminar. I was so energized by that event, I decided right then and there to join the group and soon after, I joined the board as Special Events Director. FEW connected me to a whole cadre of inspiring people. If you lean toward introversion, like me, getting actively involved is a sure way to be more comfortable in an organization.

Last year, I met one of the women featured in the fashion blog, Advanced Style. In Tziporah Salamon, I witnessed a woman who completely and utterly followed her passion and she helped me realize that although I love style and fashion, I wasn’t living up to my own creative self-expression. This ah-ha moment ignited my desire to reinvent myself and help others in the same way.

Now I’m helping others build confidence in this area of life. Some of us hate to shop, some of have a million things in our closet but nothing to wear, some of us are at a stage in our lives where we want more of a signature look. We want to wear something that makes us look good AND feel good. I want to help tackle these style challenges!

So, after some time away, I’ve come back to FEW for the learning and connection as I start on another new adventure.

If you have any interest in style, fashion, art and aesthetics, you can learn more about Mary Fidler here.